Wed 26 Aug 2009
A bump in the road..
Posted by Webster Family Blog under Grace Health Updates
It has been awhile since our last update and with the recent events we wanted to make sure all of you knew what was going on with our little Grace.
We had weaned her off 1 of her 2 anti-seizure meds last November and it went extremely well. We decided to wait a couple of months and then began to wean her slowly off the last anti-seizure medication in late December of last year. By June she was down from 3.5ml 2x per day to 1.5ml 2x per day when we began to an increase in Grace acting out and subsequent “timeouts”. At the time we accounted this behavior to the fact that less meds in her system were allowing her to feel the full extent of emotions which she’s really never had the opportunity to feel before or after surgery. Prior to surgery these extreme emotions (happiness, stress, startling, anger) would typically result in a seizure and since the HH was removed and not acting as a catalyst for the gelastic seizures and subsequent partial complex seizures the anti-seizure meds have been helping Grace control her emotions and keep them within ‘normal’ range.
We chalked these new episodes to normal behavioral issues children go through growing up but that Grace never experienced because of all the past seizure activity.
In mid-July we completely eliminated the anti-seizure medication and things got completely out of control. Grace was having aggressive and violent outburst. She was constantly trying to strike anyone near her or throw items. Meal time was especially difficult. Once she finished her meal she would try to knock everything off the table to floor. These episodes would escalate to the point timeouts were no longer working and when Grace was sent to her room she’d do her best to completely destroy it by pulling out the drawers in the dresser, knocking things off the shelves, etc. About 1.5 weeks into this we called the neurologist and asked if this change in her personality could be the result of having withdrawals from the anti-seizure med. He said it wasn’t a withdrawal issue, but more likely sub-clinical seizures or behavioral issues. He agreed we should put her back on the med and see if things improved. Within 2 days things were dramatically better. Grace was still having these episodes, but they were much more controllable and no longer escalated beyond the point of return.
Grace started kindergarten on August 17th. The week leading up to the first day we had a meeting with her IEP team at the school and let them know about the aggression we were seeing in Grace. We wanted to make sure everyone was on the same page and we had a plan for addressing any issues that might happen while she was at school. Of course, everyone was hoping Grace wouldn’t show any of these behaviors at school, but the first day of school proved us all wrong. She had several of these episodes which involved hitting, aides and classmates. That night I talked with a past teacher of Grace’s who had observed her during the school day and had been on the receiving end of her attacks. The teacher told me what she witnessed was not behavioral issues and that Grace was not in control. She said it looked very familiar to epileptic episodes of rage she’s seen before. After talking with the teacher I immediately called the neurologist and told him what had happened. He said it definitely sounds like there could be seizure activity going on and told us to put her back to the full dosage of the anti-seizure medication and plan on coming down to Sacramento for a 3 day 24hr video EEG in attempt to verify what Grace is experiencing and to ensure the medications she’s taking are correct. The good news is the increase of meds has definitely helped. It hasn’t completely eliminated the episodes, but as Grace’s teachers have said it’s like night and day from the first day of school.
We have come to believe that these episodes are 20% behavioral and 80% some form of seizure or rage attack like she had prior to surgery. They come on, usually, w/o warning. This seems to leave her very confused, sad and crying. The house has been walking on eggshells not knowing when she will go off. This is definitely not our sweet little Grace and we’re very anxious to find out what is going on and how we can help her.
This has been a very hard update to write since our news is not good news. We knew there were no guarantees for a completely seizure free life after surgery, so we’re doing our best to take each day as it comes.
Please keep our Grace in your prayers and we will post another update when we have some more news.








August 26th, 2009 at 2:02 am
I can’t tell you how much it hurts me to read this. I may not be good at following along and commenting all the time, but i always read and I always cheer for Grace and your family. I hope everything turns out well, Erica. Your little girl has already gone through so much, i hope that there is a way to resolve this as well.
August 26th, 2009 at 6:50 am
So sorry to hear about Grace’s latest struggle…it has to be tough on all of you. Will keep you in our prayers!
August 26th, 2009 at 7:28 am
I am very sad to hear of Grace’s troubles coming off the medication. It must be so hard for her, and for all of you as well. I will be keeping Grace in my daily prayers. Love and hugs, Linda (Audrey’s Umbrella)
August 26th, 2009 at 7:45 am
I’m so sorry it’s been such a rough go. My heart goes out to Grace and all of you. Sending thoughts and hugs your way.
August 26th, 2009 at 8:35 am
Hi Webster Family, I’m very sorry to hear of Grace’s recent struggles. It must be so frustrating for all of you since she was doing so well. I pray that Grace tolerates the EEG study well and that it brings you some concrete answers so her doctors can help her. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.♥
Hugs from Candy - Audrey’s Umbrella
August 26th, 2009 at 8:50 am
Hi ERica and Perry, Thanks for the update. I am going to see Grace at school today. I will make sure she leaves OT feeling very good about herself.
Stacey
August 26th, 2009 at 9:12 am
{{{HUGS}}}
i’m SO sorry that gracie is having these episodes, i’m sure it’s an emotional rollercoaster for you all. i’ll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers!
xooxoxoxooxox
August 26th, 2009 at 9:53 am
Thank you for the update. Sorry to hear that your lives are being turned upside down again. Our prayers for Gracie and family to give you peace of mind and direction in order to find the cause of the latest developments.
August 26th, 2009 at 9:56 am
OH Erica.. So sorry that your little Grace is dealing with this. How hard it must be for you and the rest of the family. You are in my prayers often!! Hope they can find something to help with this.
August 26th, 2009 at 10:08 am
I will continue to keep Grace and your family in my prayers. Thank you for continuing to keep this site updated, I know at times it is difficult to write the “not so great” updates.
God Bless you all.
August 26th, 2009 at 10:11 am
As always we are praying for you all and I hope that the EEG will shed some light on these issues. I can only imagine how difficult it has been on all of you. As you say, it’s a bump in the road and I will continue to pray for smoother trails ahead. Much Love, K
August 26th, 2009 at 10:48 am
Thinking about you guys and especially Grace. Please give a call if you need some company when you are in Sac. We would love to see you.
August 26th, 2009 at 10:50 am
Please know that we are all sending warm and loving thoughts your way. Thanks again for the update.
A hug for each,
kathy
August 26th, 2009 at 12:59 pm
So sorry things are not going well. Must be so hard for you. We continue to pray for all of you.
Love,
Van and Lois
August 26th, 2009 at 2:39 pm
I am sorry to hear all that has been going on. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Have you spoken with Dr Rekate in regards to the events occurring?
Keep me informed.
Vanessa
August 26th, 2009 at 3:03 pm
So sorry to hear about this bump in the road. Hope the visit to Sacramento sheds light on the source of the problem and provides a solution.
In the meantime…Grace and all the Websters are at the top of my prayer list.
Love,
Linda
August 26th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
Oh dear Cousin,
I am soo sorry to hear of the difficult times you have endured as you are helping guide Grace through these murky times. My heart goes out to you as there is only 1 mommy and so many little ones needing you. Grace’s additional needs tugs at my heart for you as I KNOW how busy it is having a toddler and a baby. Just know that in years to come, this WILL all just seem like a “bump in the road” when you see your Grace stand before you completely well. We will all hold hope for you until that day arrives.
As always, you may borrow all the hope i have saved up for you in my heart,
Love,
Anthea
August 26th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
Thank you for your update. I’ve been wondering how the Grace and the rest of the family are doing. I hope you get answers soon and can come up with a plan that works for everyone. My continued thoughts, Katie.
August 26th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
Thank you for the update. Wow! I cannot fathom what you are going through at this time. It has to be a tough time not knowing, but you have proven to be one strong family. Keep the faith that you have always had, and know that you can get through this too. My prayers are with you. Please keep us updated. If you need anything, please ask.
In friendship,
Cara
August 26th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
Webster Family~
I am so sorry to hear you have reached a hurdle in Grace’s recovery, my heart goes out to her and all of you. I hope you get some answers soon, I will definitely have you in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if you need anything, or any help while in Sac. Good luck and lots of hugs!!
Moore Family
August 27th, 2009 at 8:17 pm
My thoughts are with your family. Devin (age 20 ~ surgery #100 at BNI) switched from Keppra to Lamictal over the summer and her emotional “overreactions” have greatly improved. A sleep-deprived MRI last spring showed seizure activity that was being kept in check with the meds (at that time Keppra). It is a long road we travel with our children.
Wishing you the best,
Joyce O’Day
August 28th, 2009 at 7:54 am
May God help you overcome this difficult time and that Grace can control their emotions as quickly as possible, it was a pleasure to have you with us
August 28th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
Hello I am Erica ct BCD heart and hope it all passes soon, may God continue to give you strength on this journey. Be strong God is with you, kisses
August 29th, 2009 at 12:54 pm
DEAR FAMILY,
WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT GRACE IS NOT DOING AS WELL RIGHT NOW. HOWEVER, WE WILL HOPE FOR GOOD NEWS SOON AND WILL CERTAINLY CONTINUE OR PRAYERS. DO KEEP US UP-DATED.
LOVE,
HELEN AND GORDON
August 29th, 2009 at 1:50 pm
Erica, You, Gracie and the whole family will be in my daily thoughts and prayers. I know these are difficult times, but hopefully Grace’s Drs. will find a way to help her so that your lives can get back to normal. I know how tired you can get caring for three little ones. Treat yourself to a massage - it does wonders.
Love,
Lucille
August 30th, 2009 at 10:41 am
It’s so very hard to hear that things are not going well for Grace. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you, especially Grace.
Love you,
Aunt Kathy & Uncle Dale
September 1st, 2009 at 11:39 pm
I’m really sorry to hear about Grace’s recent troubles. But I know you guys will get through this just like you have made it through so much already. Better times are surely ahead!
Lots of love,
The Sokolowskis
September 7th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
Erica, I am so glad that you put the link to your blog on Lauren’s forum. I read it earlier and have thought about you guys off and on all day today and just kept coming back and wanting to write something to encourage you. I just want you to know that I am praying and to the extent that I know that God can use everything for His good, I know that He can take a really difficult situation and use it for good. I know that these next few days will be difficult and we will just pray that Grace will be able to keep the leads on and that all will go well and that the doctors will be able to give you some good information on how to proceed.